Saturday, May 16, 2009

朋友

我觉得自己比许多人都幸运,因为我拥有一群很好的朋友。

我们认识已经超过十年了,我和他们共度蛮多珍贵和欢乐的时光,在好多地方都留下了我们的足迹,如波德申、金马纶、云顶、槟城、新加坡等等。即使有些时候我们不去什么新鲜的地方,只是简简单单地在某个朋友家,泡茶聊天再观赏恐怖片,我也乐在其中。

虽然和他们是如此要好的朋友了,或许是我天生的好胜心作祟,我却常常将自己和他们比较,希望自己无论在任何方面都比他们强。我对他们很挑剔,觉得有的想法负面,有的工作懒散,有的不够独立,有的吊儿郎当,有的不切实际。。。

当我的年龄越来越大,比较成熟后我才懂得不要时时刻刻将一个人的缺点放大。从其他角度来看,我的朋友们都已经是很优秀的人才,其实他们都有很多值得我去学习的优点,比如心地善良,风趣幽默,平易近人,学识渊博,见解独到。。。

再看回头,我自己本身不也是有许多缺点吗?可是他们都保留了一颗包容的心来容纳我,我真的很感激他们,希望他们永永远远都会过着幸福的生活。

1 comment:

Unknown said...

darn.. you were right.. i can definitely think of a few that matches the profile in your 2nd para.. and remaining few (inc. me) in the 3rd para.. so mixing the two groups together, i am happy that overall impression is still positive :P.. after reading this. i can feel age is definitely hitting us, in ways of forgetting the negatives (as we are not that sharp anymore).. and live with more contented (as we forward dream less and backward flashback more)..haha