我还小的时候，觉得同居好像是电视里头才会出现的情节，那时我以为同居的人都是不正经，对感情不认真。
随着年龄增长，和时代的推进，同居开始变成一件越来越普遍的事情。它再也不是一件遥不可及的东西，身边的朋友有不少都是同居，有一些还是同居了非常多年，但他们却都生活得很恩爱。
一开始的时候，我对这种现象感到很困惑，因为它和我一向以来的观念有很大的冲突。我不晓得，为什么这些情侣生活在一起许久，都还不确定对方是不是可以和自己走完人生的道路吗？还是他们觉得一纸的婚约更本没有什么意义？
虽然我不会再歧视同居的朋友，可是我本身不会去效法。因为我觉得，婚约就是给另一半的承诺，如果真的爱对方，那又何妨花少少时间去做呢？
2 comments:
I agree with you, 同居 living together is very common nowaday. I do prefer it before getting married as you get to know more about your other half i.e. no surprise after wedding, haha..
How long 同居 will last, depends on when they are prepared to accept the 'wedding package' - inlaws, babies and so on..
Marriage is good! It makes me 'settle down' and content. Strongly recommended! :)
I don't agree with your standpoint, nor I know who you are. However I am quite surprised that you have commented my post and shared your thought, appreciate that.
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